Feels Like A Three Ring Circus

 Well a few days ago D texted me that he had been served with papers from Sharon/attourney. She changed attourneys and I will post about that in a little bit. 
 The papers were for D to appear in front of a Master (or so he thought) on Nov 8th, 2011 to address a request that Sharon was making. She had numerous requests of D to remove several paragraphs in his prior affidavit/s and to pay costs of this latest legal process. This is explained in his posts above.
  I truly felt this to be a purposeful delay and a tactic to get him to pay some money as they knew he had none. Their goal would be to delay the Trial. Sharon/atty would either shake D up to produce some cash or truly delay the process because he could not pay.
  The madness of it all is that with delays, Sharon does not get any support money (to be determined at the Trial) and she continues to spend money on all of these legal proceedings.
  The only one making money is the attourney and the courts. Fees are required by the courts for all sorts of reasons.
  The children are lost in all of it. D wants to get some type of resolution and start paying his kids directly.
  So many times all I can do is shake my head in disbelief. I cannot make any sense of the system or process allowed.
  It literally feels like a three ring circus or a puppet show. It's about moving according to who is holding the marionnette strings or following the circus master.
  I cannot imagine how it truly feels for D right in the middle having to go here and there and respond to constant BS. To remain focused and strong through all of it is remarkable to say the least.
  I am so proud of him. What an honor it is to be going through life with such an incredible person as a partner. I love you baby!

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