Our goals for the child support owed was to pay it out when the children became adults. We realized that this was not how the family courts "saw" it. Making one's support payments is seen as equating to good parenting. Money is number 1 on the list. Seeing your children is number 2. D made a conscious choice to stop paying as he was being denied access to his children. The spousal support was to have been reviewed as well and never was. We both felt that the money being paid to his ex-wife was also being used toward legal bills to fight him continually. He had left everything material exactly as it remained. All he wanted was a relationship with his children. No amount of support would ever replace what those 2 young, innocent children lost. Most importantly their father. Secondly, their entire maternal and paternal extended families.
This well intended plan did not come to fruition.
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