We had an idea of what lay ahead for us but we knew that we wouldn't feel it to the core until we were right in the middle of it. What would that look and feel like? It was not wise to waste any energy thinking of what might be. Our time and energy needed to be directed forward and on not losing sight of the objectives and the goal.
The objectives were to always stay positive, come from good intentions and to be true to ourselves.
The goal was substantial but attainable. A settlement that would be agreeable to D. Three simple requests. Yes I said simple, not easy. #1...Remove all spousal support dated back to 1999...#2...An end date on the child support and...#3...Have the hold on his passport lifted...We were actually excited at what this would mean. What could it mean for us, for his children, his family, other families, other children...ahhh....other children! I was thinking about effecting change globally. Why not?
If this movement could affect others in a positive, constructive, loving way, then why not? It was possible. Why keep it to one family? I said to D, "You should film this journey! Let people see the reality of it all." Much was discussed.
D had gained a new title...film maker! We would create a documentary.
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