The "Friend of The Court" Kael...

   Kael was called upon numerous times for legal matters. The "friend of the court" label has a story to it that I will share in another post. Quite comical to say the least. Well Kael is really Denis' youngest brother by many years and is a family law attourney. Thankyou for opening your home and your office to Denis. He needed you on several occasions and you pulled through for him.
  You were there for him at most Maintenance Enforcement "ME" hearings. You helped set the stage for how to engage with ME in these proceedings to a point he felt very comfortable showing up on his own and representing himself quite well.
  You have supported him in his quest all along. You and Kristine (Kael's wife) have housed him and you both have guided him here and there where legal matters were concerned. Kael, you sent faxes and emails and drafted documents when required. He used your house phone so many times so that we could chat long distance. A phone may seem trivial but not when you cannot speak on one at any time you wish. He loves you very much and I am so grateful that you were there for him and with him. Thank you!

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Ah Steve!

  What can I say... you are Denis' bro and you were there for him throughout so many crucial moments. You let him use your vehicle, you housed him for at least 5 months, you let him use your phone so we could chat (oh how we needed that) and you supported him through and through. You drove him places and dropped off things for him here and there. You ran errands for him.
  Steve there was one particular day that you were there for Denis and I know you have no idea what it meant to him. The day before his "trial" in January 2012 he was so exhausted, emotional and nearly tapped out. It was all coming to a head for him the following day. You showed up at Kael's and asked Denis what you could do for him to assist in preparation. You were willing to do just about anything for him. He sent you on an errand that involved the printing of the "press badge" etc. Does not sound like much but you alleviated so much stress for him that morning just by taking on this task. It is this type of support that made a vast difference for Denis.
  You felt for him. Your bond is special.  I know Denis loves you tremendously. You were so happy for him today (the final court appearance for "costs" on July 25th) and Denis felt your joy. For absolutely everything that you have done and for the person you are...thankyou!

  P.S. Thank you for feeding him all of those meats...he needed the protein to keep up his strength...he is going through carnivore withdrawal now!

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Thank You Rob & Brenda!

  I wish to express my gratitude to Brenda (Rob's wife) and Rob, Denis' cousin. Brenda...you are a rock my dear.  You just make it happen and I totally appreciate that about you. You take the initiative no matter what is going on. You are a doer! You planned a wonderful going away gathering for Denis and he was very appreciative. It was a great send off despite not knowing what the next day in court would bring. Rob spoke a few heart felt words and Denis said he did a great job. Rob this was impactful.  
  You guys have been a great support for Denis. He enjoyed the time spent at the lake, at your home with Garrett and the many encounters during the past year.
  Your presence and support at some of his court hearings was priceless.
  It was great seeing you in June 2012 as well. Brenda I appreciated your calls, your texts and your support through the last 16 mos as well. I also want to acknowledge that you took a big leap through a very uncomfortable zone when you chose to write a letter to Denis' children. I know this was not easy. Thankyou for your courage!

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A Victorious Day 15 Years Coming!

  Well hello to all...I am back and have to be consistent with the Blog as the documentary will be created and this provides some of the content.
  I am now going to use our names in full as this battle is finally over as of today. Denis is coming home. He is currently in the USA and he will be flying home to Phoenix tomorrow. He is in Grand Forks, ND. My father told me this morning, "We brought him to Canada last year and we will bring him back home now." He and his wife Solange drove him across the border into Canada last March and back into the US today.
  He has been away from his family, his friends, his home and his life for 16 mos almost to the exact date. He left for Canada on March 28th, 2011 and will be home July 26th, 2012.
  It feels surreal to me. His flight is booked and I pick him up at 1520 tomorrow. I envisioned him being on the couch in the family room once home with me by his side and the boys chatting with us. This was what I was picturing last evening. It will actually come to fruition!

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You Are An Awesome Man!

Baby I just want to tell you I am so proud of you. You are doing what 99.9% of people would never attempt to do. You have done it. You are nearing the end. You have taken it to the limit. You are almost there. I am so proud of you. I am honored to be a partner with you in life. I am grateful for you. You are an awesome human being and you fucking rock!!!! I love you sooooooo much! I cannot wait until you are home with us.

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More Delay

    Sharon hired another lawyer, his name is Sam Malamud. This would be the fourth Lawyer in a year. He appeared at the May 24, 2012 hearing in front of the Judge. The Lawyer was wanting to discuss security for costs that Sharon was awarded by Judge. The judge and I were under the impression that we were there for direction on drafting the Order. The costs were not discussed at that time. The Judge also set down a date of July 25, 2012 to discuss costs if we haven't already agreed on them. The judged instructed the lawyer how he wanted the Order drafted and the time frame. The Judge sent his instructions to both parties in a couple of days as he stated he would. Sharon's lawyer was to draft Order by the end of that same week and submit final Draft for signing.This of course did not happen. Sharon's Lawyer in that same time frame had time to draw up two affidavits and a Motion for security of costs. I wonder who is delaying and not following the instructions of the Honourable Justice William Johnston? The Motion was to be heard by the Master on Friday the 15th of June 2012... today. This was postpones to June 18, 2012 at 9:30 A.M.

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What Was The Judge Thinking!

    Hello Everyone, yes it has been a long time since either B or I have written anything on the blog. Many things have transpired since the last post and many things have stayed the same. I have continued going to Maintenance Enforcement Program hearings monthly to update the Crown and their Client MEP and my former wife of my Variation Order. On March 30, 2012 the Judge gave his decision orally, at that time Sharon and I were both self represented. The Judge told us we had to write up the order ourselves. Neither of us knew how to do this. Sharon tried putting her draft of the Order through to the Judge for signing. She also tried adding something that was never a part of the verbal decision from the Judge. Hers was rejected by Judge and sent back with instructions on what he wanted in the draft. I was not aware of this draft until the Judge sent it back to both of us with the rejection letter. 
    Sharon hired her third Lawyer who I had my brother Kael deal with regarding this Order drafting. This Lawyer seemed capable but after two weeks of working for Sharon she excused herself from dealing with Sharon by saying she was too busy!!! she actually had informed Kael that her client "Sharon" was being difficult.
    Kael had assisted me in drafting another Order but Sharon would not sign it. We sent it in and asked the Judge to sign it but he would not and so we had to set an appointment with him for May 24, 2012.  
   
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