Oct. 4th, 2011
I was driving over to my cousin’s place in hopes of seeing my son A. He lives a couple of streets past my cousin’s home. I almost didn’t believe my eyes, he drove right by me. I was so shocked I almost didn’t know what to do. I wheeled my vehicle around and followed him still not 100% sure it was him. At the first red light I was close enough to tell that it was in fact my Son A. We kept driving down the road. As we did, I was thinking of what the heck I would say to him or what worried me worse was what he might say to me. I missed a light at a mall and he drove on ahead of me. I was almost ready to drive through the red light, but I didn’t. I sped up to try and catch up to him. I checked the first lot in the back of the mall and then the second. My heart sank I thought I had missed my one chance in seven months in Winnipeg to make contact with the son I had not seen in over twelve years. I was originally in that area to get more minutes on my Manitoba cell phone. I decided that I must have lost my chance and would just get my business taken care of. To my surprise there was A’s car in the lot. I pulled into the nearest available spot and parked. I rushed to the mall entrance to see if I could see him. When I walked by his car I noticed that he was still in the car. I was a little afraid to look over at him for too long. I went into the mall and got my minutes, which I did faster than ever before. I watched the mall doors to see if he was coming in. He wasn't. I was done my business and walked out thinking he drove off. He was still there and I paused momentarily and said to myself I may never get this opportunity again so off I went.
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Friday, October 21, 2011
Business As Usual...More Manipulation
Oct. 18, 2011
I was checking the Court of Queen’s Bench registry (site for finding stored cases of the court) to see if there were any new developments in my divorce case. I was expecting to see no change. To my great surprise I found that my Ex wife, Sharon put an application in for a protective order in front of the court. I was equally surprised to find out that it was dismissed.
Ten to fifteen years ago the courts would hand these out like candy at a candy store. No need of proof of any wrong doing. You just had to say you feared someone or you feared for your children’s safety and you were granted an order of protection. I have heard from local people here in Winnipeg that it is not the case anymore.
I went down to the court to find out the particulars of the dismissed application for the protection order. Well right on top was what I was looking for. It was as a few people suspected, it had been filed the very next day after I talked to my son A. It appeared as though Sharon was trying the same tricks she used over 10 years ago to keep me and my family away from my son A and daughter R. Sharon implied that I was stalking my son and that guns and violence were a threat. These were the tools she used to try to manipulate the Judge and the Court. It is unfortunate that Sharon is in the same place as she was 15 years ago. My main concern is for my kids A and R. I love them so much and not a day goes by that I don't think of them.
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I was checking the Court of Queen’s Bench registry (site for finding stored cases of the court) to see if there were any new developments in my divorce case. I was expecting to see no change. To my great surprise I found that my Ex wife, Sharon put an application in for a protective order in front of the court. I was equally surprised to find out that it was dismissed.
Ten to fifteen years ago the courts would hand these out like candy at a candy store. No need of proof of any wrong doing. You just had to say you feared someone or you feared for your children’s safety and you were granted an order of protection. I have heard from local people here in Winnipeg that it is not the case anymore.
I went down to the court to find out the particulars of the dismissed application for the protection order. Well right on top was what I was looking for. It was as a few people suspected, it had been filed the very next day after I talked to my son A. It appeared as though Sharon was trying the same tricks she used over 10 years ago to keep me and my family away from my son A and daughter R. Sharon implied that I was stalking my son and that guns and violence were a threat. These were the tools she used to try to manipulate the Judge and the Court. It is unfortunate that Sharon is in the same place as she was 15 years ago. My main concern is for my kids A and R. I love them so much and not a day goes by that I don't think of them.
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NEW!! Additions To The BLOG by D!
Well I would like to start by saying that these new posts in green will be D's posts. This will quickly differenciate his from mine on the Blog.
He is going to start blogging about his current experiences with his "Mission" in Canada as well as past goings on related to his divorce, custody battle for his children and the parent alienation and associated syndrome that has affected his children. He will be writing as he feels it and it may not have any chronological order at this time.
His goal is to get his thoughts and sentiments out as they come up. The organization of it may occur as we go along.
Remember D's posts are in GREEN. PLEASE check out our resource links in the TOP RIGHT hand corner. These resources will include both Parent Alienation/Syndrome information as well as support for divorced families. Become a follower as this will help us grow our audience. .
He is going to start blogging about his current experiences with his "Mission" in Canada as well as past goings on related to his divorce, custody battle for his children and the parent alienation and associated syndrome that has affected his children. He will be writing as he feels it and it may not have any chronological order at this time.
His goal is to get his thoughts and sentiments out as they come up. The organization of it may occur as we go along.
Remember D's posts are in GREEN. PLEASE check out our resource links in the TOP RIGHT hand corner. These resources will include both Parent Alienation/Syndrome information as well as support for divorced families. Become a follower as this will help us grow our audience. .
Sunday, October 2, 2011
Hello Again!
I guess we all figured out that I was in fact, NOT back!
Here it is October 2nd, 2011. I woke up this morning and actually thought of the Blog immediately. I got up and did a few things outside. It was 75 degress at 0630! Ahhhhhh!
I warmed up my coffee and went to sit on the couch to ponder what I would do today....The Blog...it kept popping up in my thoughts.
So here I sit in front of my computer. For the first time since May I actually feel it within me to write. Oh I know I had made a post here and there since then but I felt obligated to do so. It was not coming from within.
Steve...to you, I am truly sorry as I had told you I would write a few weeks ago and I did not. I meant it when I said it but as evidenced by no new entry, I wasn't feeling it.
PLEASE check out our resource links in the TOP RIGHT hand corner. These resources will include both Parent Alienation/Syndrome information as well as support for divorced families. Become a follower as this will help us grow our audience.
Here it is October 2nd, 2011. I woke up this morning and actually thought of the Blog immediately. I got up and did a few things outside. It was 75 degress at 0630! Ahhhhhh!
I warmed up my coffee and went to sit on the couch to ponder what I would do today....The Blog...it kept popping up in my thoughts.
So here I sit in front of my computer. For the first time since May I actually feel it within me to write. Oh I know I had made a post here and there since then but I felt obligated to do so. It was not coming from within.
Steve...to you, I am truly sorry as I had told you I would write a few weeks ago and I did not. I meant it when I said it but as evidenced by no new entry, I wasn't feeling it.
PLEASE check out our resource links in the TOP RIGHT hand corner. These resources will include both Parent Alienation/Syndrome information as well as support for divorced families. Become a follower as this will help us grow our audience.
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Nearly Two Months Have Gone By!!!
Time so flies! I am looking over my Blog because I have to pull some information from it to get a document created for D's court case on Sept 9th. I started reading several entries and I have missed writing. I noticed I had a few more followers. That was cool!
To all who have been checking...thank you for your support and I am sorry that I have taken such a lengthy hiatus. I will explain in the days to come.
To those who kept checking and finally gave up on me writing new material...surprise...never give up...haha!
I am back. I have been working on pulling together more information for D in order to bring it to him in person TODAY!!!
Yes, I am flying to Canada this afternoon and will be hugging my wonderful man at about 2100 tonight. He is meeting me at the border in order to spend one extra hour with me on the ride to Winnipeg. All his idea...I was so touched!
I AM back...I feel good and I am eager and ready to get this out.
PLEASE check out our resource links in the TOP RIGHT hand corner. These resources will include both Parent Alienation/Syndrome information as well as support for divorced families. Become a follower as this will help us grow our audience.
To all who have been checking...thank you for your support and I am sorry that I have taken such a lengthy hiatus. I will explain in the days to come.
To those who kept checking and finally gave up on me writing new material...surprise...never give up...haha!
I am back. I have been working on pulling together more information for D in order to bring it to him in person TODAY!!!
Yes, I am flying to Canada this afternoon and will be hugging my wonderful man at about 2100 tonight. He is meeting me at the border in order to spend one extra hour with me on the ride to Winnipeg. All his idea...I was so touched!
I AM back...I feel good and I am eager and ready to get this out.
PLEASE check out our resource links in the TOP RIGHT hand corner. These resources will include both Parent Alienation/Syndrome information as well as support for divorced families. Become a follower as this will help us grow our audience.
Tuesday, June 14, 2011
Lacking Motivation
Well here it is Tuesday morning. I seem to be having difficulty finding motivation to start up on this topic again. I have signed in on the Blog several days but begin to write and my heart and my head are not in it so I sign out. I must be all in in order to be coming from my true self.
I know me very well and when my heart speaks to me I need to listen. I continue to grow and learn.
On my way to the airport I was captive in a car for 2 hours. I decided that this would be a great time to read Sharon's affidavit in full. I did not want to read it while I was in Canada as I knew it would alter my mood at that moment.
I had both affidavits side by side and read them both. I read them aloud to my father and his wife. They were driving me to Grand Forks, ND. The material elicited some response and dialogue between the 3 of us. I was grateful for their company.
(For those who are unfamiliar...An affidavit is a formal sworn statement of fact, signed by the author, who is called the affiant or deponent, and witnessed as to the authenticity of the affiant's signature by a taker of oaths, such as a notary public or commissioner of oaths). These are the statements that each party presents to the Courts. They are a summary of what that party wishes to have addressed in Court.
I will be posting these Affidavits on my Blog in pieces. I will not summarize them with my opinion in any way. That is my goal. YOU, the reader can discover and reach your own conclusions.
Just now, posting this Blog entry, I am feeling some flow of writing.
I will be back in full force. I need some time to work through my feelings of being back here without D. I was hit much harder than I ever anticipated the day after I arrived back in AZ.
Thank you to our friends Mari, Ronda, Linda and Teresa for reaching out to me via phone or message knowing that I was back. Your thinking of me had a greater impact than you will ever really know! I am grateful for all of you.
PLEASE check out our resource links in the TOP RIGHT hand corner. These resources will include both Parent Alienation/Syndrome information as well as support for divorced families. Become a follower as this will help us grow our audience.
I know me very well and when my heart speaks to me I need to listen. I continue to grow and learn.
On my way to the airport I was captive in a car for 2 hours. I decided that this would be a great time to read Sharon's affidavit in full. I did not want to read it while I was in Canada as I knew it would alter my mood at that moment.
I had both affidavits side by side and read them both. I read them aloud to my father and his wife. They were driving me to Grand Forks, ND. The material elicited some response and dialogue between the 3 of us. I was grateful for their company.
(For those who are unfamiliar...An affidavit is a formal sworn statement of fact, signed by the author, who is called the affiant or deponent, and witnessed as to the authenticity of the affiant's signature by a taker of oaths, such as a notary public or commissioner of oaths). These are the statements that each party presents to the Courts. They are a summary of what that party wishes to have addressed in Court.
I will be posting these Affidavits on my Blog in pieces. I will not summarize them with my opinion in any way. That is my goal. YOU, the reader can discover and reach your own conclusions.
Just now, posting this Blog entry, I am feeling some flow of writing.
I will be back in full force. I need some time to work through my feelings of being back here without D. I was hit much harder than I ever anticipated the day after I arrived back in AZ.
Thank you to our friends Mari, Ronda, Linda and Teresa for reaching out to me via phone or message knowing that I was back. Your thinking of me had a greater impact than you will ever really know! I am grateful for all of you.
PLEASE check out our resource links in the TOP RIGHT hand corner. These resources will include both Parent Alienation/Syndrome information as well as support for divorced families. Become a follower as this will help us grow our audience.
Saturday, June 11, 2011
I Am Sorry!
Well I apologize to you all as I never did Blog while I visited my family in Canada. The time flew by and I spent as much time just being with and around D and/or family. What a great time. I have so much to write.
I have new information and past information to catch up on.
I will also be shifting the focus slightly as we continue.
I will bring you all current I promise.
I will be writing in present tense very shortly rather than in the past tense.
Thanks for all of your patience. Please give me another day or so to settle in from my trip. I may be back later today.
Make it a great day!
PLEASE check out our resource links in the TOP RIGHT hand corner. These resources will include both Parent Alienation/Syndrome information as well as support for divorced families. Become a follower as this will help us grow our audience.
I have new information and past information to catch up on.
I will also be shifting the focus slightly as we continue.
I will bring you all current I promise.
I will be writing in present tense very shortly rather than in the past tense.
Thanks for all of your patience. Please give me another day or so to settle in from my trip. I may be back later today.
Make it a great day!
PLEASE check out our resource links in the TOP RIGHT hand corner. These resources will include both Parent Alienation/Syndrome information as well as support for divorced families. Become a follower as this will help us grow our audience.
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